HOW TO TRANSFORM THROUGH THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE WITH CLARITY, POWER, AND DIRECTION WITHOUT SACRIFICING YOURSELF!

 
BEGIN MY JOURNEY

HOW TO TRANSFORM THROUGH THE CHAOS OF DIVORCE WITH CLARITY, POWER, AND DIRECTION WITHOUT SACRIFICING YOURSELF!

 
BEGIN MY JOURNEY

YOU DIDN’T ASK FOR THIS CHAPTER… BUT YOU GET TO CHOOSE HOW IT ENDS.

YOU DIDN’T ASK FOR THIS CHAPTER… BUT YOU GET TO CHOOSE HOW IT ENDS.

 

After divorce, most men are left:

  • Emotionally wrecked but expected to “stay strong” and keep it together

  • Consumed with anxiety about what their ex is doing

  • Confused and scared about who they are without her and the relationship

  • Shaming themselves for what went wrong, without a guide for what’s next

  • Isolated, hurt, and silently carrying the weight of failure

After divorce, most men are left:

  • Emotionally wrecked but expected to “stay strong” and keep it together
  • Consumed with anxiety about what their ex is doing
  • Confused and scared about who they are without her and the relationship
  • Shaming themselves for what went wrong, without a guide for what’s next
  • Isolated, hurt, and silently carrying the weight of failure

I specifically created this experience for the man who wants something more than “just getting through it” like I did.


He wants to use this opportunity for transformation and evolution. 

 

He wants to turn his pain into power.

 

So this doesn't repeat again.

 

This is not therapy.
This is not another generic divorce recovery course.


This is a rite of passage. 

I specifically created this experience for the man who wants something more than “just getting through it” like I did.

He wants to use this opportunity for transformation and evolution. 
 
He wants to turn his pain into power.
 
So this doesn't repeat again.
 
This is not therapy.
This is not another generic divorce recovery course.


This is a rite of passage. 

Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship.

It can feel like the end of you.

  • Your identity is suddenly shattered

  • Your confidence disappears

  • Your future seems blank and completely unknown

  • You are stuck replaying mental movies and what you could’ve done differently

  • You are lost in a sea of grief, anger, and numbness with no support

Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship.

It can feel like the end of you.
  • Your identity is suddenly shattered

  • Your confidence disappears

  • Your future seems blank and completely unknown

  • You are stuck replaying mental movies and what you could’ve done differently

  • You are lost in a sea of grief, anger, and numbness with no support

You may be tempted to bury yourself into distractions, get lost in work, sleep around, or shut down.

 

But the pain you're feeling?
It’s not here to punish you.

 

It’s here to wake you up.

 

Divorce isn’t a failure. 

It's a circuit breaker.

 

It interrupts everything you thought you were… So you can become who you were meant to be.
 
This isn’t about recovering from your marriage or putting back together something that was broken.
 
This is about embracing the lessons and reclaiming yourself in what life has gifted you.
 
You don’t need to vent.

You don’t need more information.


You need a clear path of transformation that helps you navigate the pain and brings you home to your truth.

You may be tempted to bury yourself into distractions, get lost in work, sleep around, or shut down.

 

But the pain you're feeling?
It’s not here to punish you.

 

It’s here to wake you up.

Divorce isn’t a failure. 

It's a circuit breaker.


It interrupts everything you thought you were… 
So you can become who you were meant to be.
 
This isn’t about recovering from your marriage or putting back together something that was broken.
 
This is about embracing the lessons and reclaiming yourself in what life has gifted you.
 
You don’t need to vent.

You don’t need more information.


You need a clear path of transformation that helps you navigate the pain and brings you home to your truth.

YOUR GUIDE IN THE EMPOWERED DIVORCE EXPERIENCE

I'm Cody Mathieson Packer

For the past three years, I’ve coached hundreds of men across the world to meet themselves more deeply, reconnect with their masculinity, and find their purpose and vision after divorce.

But none of this started with a plan.

It started with my own divorce.

Six years ago, the end of my marriage completely shattered my identity, but ultimately, it cracked me open to the man I was always meant to become. That experience was not just painful. 

It was the catalyst. 

It birthed a calling. It was the fire I walked through that changed my life. This created a mission to help other men powerfully move through their divorce with support to alchemize this opportunity like I did.

I’ve trained under three of the world’s top holistic empowerment coaches, becoming a certified Mastery Method International coach. I’ve traveled the globe, investing in deep personal development and learnt the tools that create real, long lasting transformation, not just in theory, but at the level of identity and action. 

And one thing became crystal clear to me along the way:

Brotherhood and men doing this work together changes everything. 


Being surrounded by healthy, grounded, powerful masculine men has been the bedrock of my growth. It’s where I’ve been sharpened, seen, challenged, and held accountable like nowhere else. That level of support and shared purpose has fueled my evolution and it’s exactly what I love to cultivate for the men I serve.

The Empowered Divorce Experience is the journey I wish I had when I was in the thick of it.

It’s not therapy. It’s not a support group. 

It’s a rite of passage. For the man ready to face what’s in front of him and walk a proven path.

YOUR GUIDE IN THE EMPOWERED DIVORCE EXPERIENCE
I'm Cody Mathieson Packer

For the past three years, I’ve coached hundreds of men across the world to meet themselves more deeply, reconnect with their masculinity, and find their purpose and vision after divorce.

But none of this started with a plan.

It started with my own divorce.

Six years ago, the end of my marriage completely shattered my identity, but ultimately, it cracked me open to the man I was always meant to become. That experience was not just painful. 

It was the catalyst. 

It birthed a calling. It was the fire I walked through that changed my life. This created a mission to help other men powerfully move through their divorce with support to alchemize this opportunity like I did.

I’ve trained under three of the world’s top holistic empowerment coaches, becoming a certified Mastery Method International coach. I’ve traveled the globe, investing in deep personal development and learnt the tools that create real, long lasting transformation, not just in theory, but at the level of identity and action. 

And one thing became crystal clear to me along the way:

Brotherhood and men doing this work together changes everything. 


Being surrounded by healthy, grounded, powerful masculine men has been the bedrock of my growth. It’s where I’ve been sharpened, seen, challenged, and held accountable like nowhere else. That level of support and shared purpose has fueled my evolution and it’s exactly what I love to cultivate for the men I serve.

The Empowered Divorce Experience is the journey I wish I had when I was in the thick of it.

It’s not therapy. It’s not a support group. 

It’s a rite of passage. For the man ready to face what’s in front of him and walk a proven path.

Borja C.

Cody’s experience was absolutely life changing. I found him after losing my marriage of 8 years. Cody really allowed me to see the bigger picture and shift the relationship with my inner world and patterns from one of shame and judgment, to one of love, letting go of my pain. His experience was crucial in me finding inner peace, reconnecting with my power and wholeness like never before.

Steve W.

Truly powerful changes happen in Cody’s presence.
I came this experience after leaving my wife and having a mountain of shame and guilt about it. I was able to find moments of extreme clarity and release, to let go of all I was holding onto and stuck in. Now I finally feel empowered to live my life my own way, knowing who I am and what I want and feel more at peace with myself than I have ever been.

Nic P.

I did Cody’s experience after my 10 year relationship suddenly ended out of nowhere. When I started, I was living in constant self judgment and hated who I was. The experience helped me map out my journey of healing and redemption. It provided me with incredible tools and guidance to let go of childhood trauma and conditioning with nothing but love, so I could move forward with a new found peace. 

THIS IS FOR YOU IF...

  • You feel lost after divorce and don’t know where to begin
  • You want to choose yourself powerfully for the first time
  • You want to move on but keep looping back to the past
  • You feel angry, ashamed, or confused about what happened
  • You’ve lost trust in yourself
  • You’re ready to grow but need a proven path to walk
BEGIN MY JOURNEY

THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF…

This experience isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. We’re not here to coddle you or feed the victim story. We’re here to challenge, elevate, and transform you from the inside out.

❌ You want to stay stuck in blame, resentment, or self-pity

❌ You’re looking for a quick fix or passive “feel better” content

❌ You aren’t willing to look at your patterns, pain, or part of your relationship

❌ You just want to vent about your ex without taking ownership

❌ You’d rather numb, distract, or avoid than feel and evolve to a higher standard

THIS IS FOR YOU IF...

  • You feel lost after divorce and don’t know where to begin
  • You want to choose yourself powerfully for the first time
  • You want to move on but keep looping back to the past
  • You feel angry, ashamed, or confused about what happened
  • You’ve lost trust in yourself
  • You’re ready to grow but need a proven path to walk
BEGIN MY JOURNEY

THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF…

This experience isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. We’re not here to coddle you or feed the victim story. We’re here to challenge, elevate, and transform you from the inside out.

❌ You want to stay stuck in blame, resentment, or self-pity

❌ You’re looking for a quick fix or passive “feel better” content

❌ You aren’t willing to look at your patterns, pain, or part of your relationship

❌ You just want to vent about your ex without taking ownership

❌ You’d rather numb, distract, or avoid than feel and evolve to a higher standard

INSIDE THE EXPERIENCE

This is the journey I wish existed when I was in the heaviness of my divorce, trying to do it all alone.

I learnt that what men truly need is a structured path that creates stability, consistency and support amongst the chaos.

An experience that helps you release the pain, reclaim your power, and move forward- without losing yourself. 

This isn’t more meaningless theory. It's transformative action that creates results. 

Every tool, process, and practice inside this course is what created the biggest shifts in my healing and identity in my 3 year journey.

I created this so it won't take you 3 years like I did.

You get it all in 30 days. Self-paced, but full impact.

PHASE 1: RELEASE

Let go of your ex and the weight you’ve been carrying.

Video 1.1- Set powerful intentions

Video 1.2- Cut emotional access to your ex + reclaim your energy

Video 1.3- Radically change the way you relate to your pain and failures

Video 1.4- Write “F*ck You” letters to clear built-up resentment and emotional weight

Video 1.5- Unmask your identity and patterns of being a nice guy and people pleaser to let them go

PHASE 2: RECLAIM

Return to yourself. Reconnect to your body, emotions, and masculine clarity.

Video 2.1- Build an unshakeable morning routine and to begin each day anchored in your energy

Video 2.2- Learn a groundbreaking way to process your emotions and connect with your body

Video 2.3- Forgive yourself and others to open your heart and cleanse yourself of negative energy 

Video 2.4- Reclaim your power by learning to respond vs react out of your automatic, old identity

PHASE 3: REDEFINE

Create a new identity based on truth, not trauma.

Video 3.1- Shatter what you know about being a man and learn my signature healthy masculine framework

Video 3.2- Choose the guiding principles of the man you want to become so he has a north star

Video 3.3- Create your own anchor statements to powerfully live your life by

Video 3.4- Define your new success standard from the inside out

PHASE 4: REWRITE

Craft a new vision—and life—and step into leading it in your own way.

Video 4.1- Connect to a vision around your guiding principles and the man are choosing to be

Video 4.2- Reconnect with your inner child, joy, and what lights you up

Video 4.3- Learn how to shift from living in the gap to the gain

Video 4.4- Reflections and revelations to celebrate!

COMMUNITY SUPPORT

You don’t have to walk this alone. Men are so much more powerful together. 

Join a private community of men navigating the same path as you.

You’ll receive:

→ A Monthly Live Q&A Coaching call with Cody to ask any questions about the course or what you’re going through

→ Brotherhood and support 24/7 from other men

→ Accountability challenges and stretch assignments to rise and grow together along the way

BEGIN MY JOURNEY

JOIN THE EMPOWERED DIVORCE EXPERIENCE FOR ONLY

$297

YOU WILL GET EXCLUSIVE ACCESS TO

 The Empowered Divorce Experience for Lifetime

  • A self-paced, one of a kind journey through 4 intentionally designed phases so you can be fully supported in reclaiming your power, healing your past, and redefining the man you’re here to be.
  • No fluff, bite sized transformational videos, root cause tools, meditations, and potent action exercises to ensure you get real and lasting results. 
  • Unlimited Access. So you can come back to any and all of it whenever you want. How good?
  • (Value: Priceless)

Monthly Live Q&A Coaching Calls with Cody

  • Once a month you will have the opportunity to bring any questions about the experience, or what you’re going through in life, to Cody on a group call and get guidance on it
  • (Value: Priceless) 

Private Facebook Brotherhood Community

  • Access a safe, growth-driven space to share your process, connect, celebrate your wins, and support others. Cody will post stretch assignments and accountability challenges to keep you growing and supported by the brotherhood of men- because you don’t need to do this alone.
  • (Value: Priceless)

Exclusive Access to Future Retreats + Immersions

  • As a member, you’ll receive exclusive invites to Cody’s upcoming in-person experiences focused on masculine embodiment, being in your joy and power, connection and brotherhood
  • (Value: Priceless)
BEGIN MY JOURNEY

AFTER 30 DAYS, YOU'LL:

✅ Cut emotional ties that keep you stuck in the past

✅ Reclaim your healthy masculine energy + create stability

✅ Forgive yourself and let go of emotional burdens

✅ Learn to put yourself first for once in your life

✅ Replace confusion with clear direction

✅ Rebuild self-trust to define your next chapter

✅ Feel peace, power, and confidence again—on your terms

 This is a transformation that sticks because it’s embodied, not just talked about.

Dave S.

 Before working with Cody I felt a big black cloud over my life after my marriage ended. I was stuck repeating the same patterns and behaviors over and over. A few months on and I don't even recognize myself. He helped me find the root behind what was creating that version of me so I could love it and let it go. I now feel a sense of freedom like I never thought was possible and can see a future where I'm the one creating it.

Justin H.

I came to Cody completely in disarray and deep pain after my divorce. What sets Cody apart is his ability reframe and heal your past with the practical tools he provides. It has helped me navigate my present and future with confidence, purpose and clarity. 
If you are looking for someone who can truly make a difference in your life, I wholeheartedly recommend Cody.

Jerod H.

I cannot express enough how transformative the experience was with Cody. From the moment I began, I felt an immediate sense of trust and calmness. Through his processes I was able to explore some deep-seated personal challenges and patterns that I had been carrying for years after a marriage of mine ended. His insightful guidance and incredible tools allowed me to confront and heal in ways I never knew about.

𝗜𝗙 𝗬𝗢𝗨’𝗩𝗘 𝗕𝗘𝗘𝗡 𝗪𝗔𝗜𝗧𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗔 𝗦𝗜𝗚𝗡—𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗜𝗦 𝗜𝗧.


You already know this is more than a course.

This is the start of your new life.

The man you want to become isn’t waiting for permission.

He’s waiting for you to say yes.

Start The Empowered Divorce Experience now.

BEGIN MY JOURNEY

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